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 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Welcome to the Stack Back Board, dragonfire4110! yes

 

I hope you're enjoying it here so far! smiley

 

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 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Wed Jan 13, 2016 9:23 pm
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Sun Jan 17, 2016 2:54 am

I have not really been legitimatly bullied but people have been mean to me. It doesn't feel good. I want bullying to stop and I want everybody to feel like they don't have to be scared to go to school or wherever. I also don't want anybody to be a bully. It makes people feel bad. I will join this club so that everyone feels safe. I don't me or anybody to be bullied or to be a bully. 




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Sun Jan 17, 2016 4:07 pm

Hi aquadolphin5885, smiley

 

I see that you’re new to the Stack Back Board. Welcome! It’s great to have you with us! yes

 

As a new user, please read the rules in the announcements section at the top of the Stack Back Board.

 

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 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Wed Jan 13, 2016 9:23 pm
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Sun Jan 17, 2016 9:24 pm

I just want to say, if you are being bullied, don't let them get to you. That's just what they want to happen to you. And don't think you're a tattletale if you tell an adult. When someone was being mean to me, I got help from an adult. Now that person is nicer. Also, never be mean back; it will just cause more problems. Don't feel bad about yourself if you are getting bullied because it's not you're fault; it may not be the bully's fault either. The bully may have a reason that he or she acts that way. The bully's parents may not be nice to him or her so they take it out on you. But that's not your fault! The bully might have been bullied before or wants to gain power over people. Just always keep your cool and don't feel bad. We all know that when someone is being mean to us it does not feel good. I don't want anyone to be a bully either. You guys just hang in there!smileyheartyeslaughcheeky




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Thu Jul 04, 2013 4:31 am
Posts: 416
Fri Mar 25, 2016 12:48 am

It's been a while since I posted here. 

It's also been a while since I left those people.

I'm happy in middle school now, it's hard and SO stressful, but I'm very happy. smiley

 

I have a friend group and a very good friend, and even a crush. But of course, I still have enemies. indecisiondevil

 

My enemies consist of mainly girls, but there's a couple boys.

 

Middle school has changed me a LOT. Not only do I like a bunch of new things and have a partially new personality and experience, but I'm not really depressed anymore. I get over things easily without guidance, and I'm pretty happy. 

I still, of course, have my EXTREMELY stressed times, which is basically all the time, but I'm also happy. 50% happy and 50% stressed. laugh

 

These are just rude people, not full-on bullying that you have to report to teachers. I've actually developed a friendship with one of my teachers, and she's honestly the best and most nicest teacher I've ever had. No one bullies me for it, and the majority of my school are nice, kind people.

Of course, some DO think I'm a bit weird, because I am, but they accept that quirk and are still friendly to me.

 

I have handled bullies this year.

To stand up to bullies, you must have a friend group. Gather a couple friends, or ask them about it. To actually stand up to the bully or rude person, tell a friend to come over to your desk or something if they're bothering you. If the bully claims that you're the one being mean or rude, ask them to provide reasons.

If they can't provide anything, then YOU provide reasons. This will leave the bully unsure of what to do. 

Also, you SHOULD talk to teachers if it's really serious. Don't tell them for anything other than physical activity.

Otherwise, gather a few friends and stand against them. It'll work. wink

 

I hope this helped, and yes, middle school is middle school, but it's also my home. smiley

 

"If you want to be yourself, stop hiding behind the makeup. No one can see who you really are if you try to be perfect. There's no such thing."

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 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Sat Feb 27, 2016 3:10 pm
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Fri Mar 25, 2016 7:32 pm

I'll joinwink!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Sun Jan 31, 2016 8:12 pm
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Mon Mar 28, 2016 12:47 am

Hi! I want to say that I would definiately want to join. 

I've never really being bullied but mostly just teased around. It still hurts your feelings, but I've learned that it's only a moment. You've got 364 more days to go on. I've seen other kids get bullied and I don't think it's okay. I'm really glad that there's a club for this and I hope that anyone being bullied realizes that if you find the good things in life, the other bad stuff wears away a little bit. 

I'd really like to help others get through bullying and find better things in life.smiley

Keep Smiling!  cool




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Thu Apr 07, 2016 12:00 am
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Thu Apr 07, 2016 12:00 am

Hi so I'm new here. I recently found out about this so yeah I am bullied now. This is my first time getting bullied so any tips or advice.And guess who my bully is my best friend and another friend of mine. So pls give me adive or tips.crying I'm really sad that my friend is doing this to me.




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Thu Apr 07, 2016 4:02 pm

Hi, dragoncheerful253, smiley

I see that you’re new to the Stack Back Board. Welcome! It’s great to have you with us! yes

 

As a new user, please read the rules in the announcements section at the top of the Stack Back Board.

 

Have fun talking about THE STACKS and making new friends!

 

-Moderator Jennifer

 

P.S. I'm so sorry to hear that you're going throught that. The post at the begininning of this thread offers some suggestions for dealing with bullying. Users are also welcome to share what worked for them.

 

 




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Sat Jun 16, 2007 5:17 pm
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Sat Apr 09, 2016 12:29 am

I'd like to join! I don't think bullying of any kind is right, whether it's regular or cyberbullying. We should put an end to this.




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Fri Aug 17, 2007 2:43 pm
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Sat Apr 09, 2016 3:41 pm

Welcome back to the Stack Back Board, technologygirl! Thanks for sharing your opinion. yes




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Thu May 12, 2016 4:39 pm
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Wed Jun 01, 2016 1:55 am

cheekyhey everybody i hope knowone is getting bullied so far i would just lik to give some advice that i know its hard although i have not been through it myself i have eard of may sad heartbreaking stories of it myself and i feel that i should support.




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Wed Jun 01, 2016 3:01 pm

Welcome to the Stack Back Board, ironwriter14! yes

 

I hope you're enjoying it here so far! smiley

 

As a new member, please read the rules in the announcements section at the top of the Stack Back Board.

 

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 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Tue May 31, 2016 1:39 pm
Posts: 44
Thu Jun 02, 2016 3:04 pm

I have this one friend (well, ex-boyfriend tbh) that started ingnoring me. Is that a form of bullying? I feel like I did something and now he wants nothing to do with me. What do I do? I feel like I have nothing now. Help!




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Thu Jun 02, 2016 4:05 pm

Hi fearlessdragon1978, smiley

 

I see that you’re new to the Stack Back Board. Welcome! It’s great to have you with us!

 

As a new user, please read the rules in the announcements section at the top of the Stack Back Board. yes

 

Have fun talking about THE STACKS and making new friends!

 

-Moderator Jennifer

 

P.S. I'm very sorry you're having a hard time! I'll let the other users respond to your question, since the purpose of this thread is for users to make one another feel supported. 




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Mon May 18, 2015 2:01 am
Posts: 22
Sat Jun 04, 2016 5:09 pm

Hi! I'm actually part of an anti-bully squad at my school. Here are some of my tips:

Remember the difference between conflict and bullying

Go to a teacher right away if you feel you are getting bullied

Don't be afraid to tell anyone, especially an adult, what's happening

You could stand up for yourself, if you felt you could




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Sun Jun 05, 2016 4:17 pm

Welcome to the Stack Back Board, tealbasketball76! smiley

 

Thanks for sharing your tips! yes

 

As a new member, please read the rules in the announcements section at the top of the Stack Back Board.

 

Enjoy talking about THE STACKS and making new friends! smiley

 

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 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Tue May 31, 2016 1:39 pm
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Tue Jun 07, 2016 1:18 pm

//@moderator_jennifer; Thanks for the help. I feel like he stopped caring about me. It felt like he took what he wanted from me and then left. Are all guys like that? I feel so hurt because of it.//

 




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Fri Aug 17, 2007 2:43 pm
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Tue Jun 07, 2016 2:31 pm

You're welcome. I'll let the other users respond with their opinions. You might also want to  discuss your feelings with a trusted adult such as a parent, teacher or school counselor.




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Thu Jun 02, 2016 2:28 pm
Posts: 9
Tue Jun 07, 2016 9:33 pm

i am not sure if this is bulying so there is this girl in my school who crys over every thing she is alwys being realy mean and always every one beleves her  but she just cries a lot




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Wed Jun 08, 2016 3:10 pm

Welcome to the Stack Back Board, creativeeasygoing15! yes

 

I hope you're enjoying it here so far! smiley

 

As a new member, please read the rules in the announcements section at the top of the Stack Back Board.

 

Have fun talking about THE STACKS and making new friends!

 

-Moderator Jennifer  

 

P.S. I'm sorry someone is being mean at school! I'll let the other users chime in and reply to your post. 




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Tue May 31, 2016 1:39 pm
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Tue Jun 14, 2016 1:09 pm

OK, so this is more of a question that has been nagging at me for the past week or so: I just found out on 6/10/16 that my grandma is dying, and I'm not ready for her to go. I feel like a huge part of my life is being stolen. How am I supposed to cope with this?




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Fri Aug 17, 2007 2:43 pm
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Tue Jun 14, 2016 2:28 pm

I'm truly sorry to hear that.  I recommend talking to your parents about what you are feeling, so you can be there for each other. Other users might also choose to share their similar experiences with you. I wish you and your family the best. heart




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Wed May 11, 2016 8:01 pm
Posts: 269
Sun Jul 10, 2016 5:07 am

CreativeEasyGoing15: I think the reason that bullies do what they do is because they were bullied by someone else, making them feel inferior (less than everyone else), or in other words, the reason they bully is to make them feel superior. Or maybe they might be doing it just for fun.

That's my opinion! Probably joined a bit late, but who cares?

-Dragoncrown485

P.S. FearlessDragon1978: Remember that there are people you love all around you. Don't forget that.




 Re: Hand and Hand Anti-Bullying Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!
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Joined: Mon Jan 09, 2017 9:38 pm
Posts: 1
Tue Jan 10, 2017 9:31 pm

Hi! May I please join? I really think that bullying is a big problem in the world and it makes people feel like they are nothing. That's why I want to join this club and HELP STOP BULLYING!




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